.Thursday, June 25, 2009'Thursday, June 25, 2009
just another post to end today...
sometimes i wonder... people usually have their respect for their parents, as they were the ones who gave birth to u and also to care and love u and brought u to whoever u r today... so whatever they have done is 伟大的 and we should be filial to them...
but then, there are some cases where the parents have to abandon their child due to unforeseen circumstances... like erm premarriage child or wadeva.. or due to financial problems, like cannot support the child... which is rare in singapore...
hmmm... then i ask... wad about those that are really unique cases? like those who seriously never took care of their children, just throw them to their parents and then enjoy life outside?
for these kind of parents, should the child be filial to them? or should they hate them? or should they forgive them and support them for their old age?
seriously... in my opinion, i felt that no matter what the parents have done to the child, the child should still be filial to them... because they are ur parents and they (especially the mother) carried u for 10 months before birth... during the 10 months the mother suffered alot of inconvenience, pain, horror and many more... the father, which i dun really know, may also play an important role during the 10 months by doing housework for the mother and also to accomodate with the changes that the mother experiences in the 10 months... ( appetite, mood swing etc...) however.... *** i dun really know*** is only a 假象; imagination.
ya lor... but i know some ppl may not agree to wadeva i have said here... it's ok... as it is ur own perspective and ur experience in this issue... what i wrote may be wrong for ur circumstances... pardon that... but that is how i feel for this issue... LOL is not GP essay la... so i only got 1 point.. =.= pardon.....
